Years ago I heard this on TV while watching Rugrats. I have grown up since and the meaning of this statement has thus evolved –
Sometimes a baby’s gotta do what a baby’s gotta do!
Have you ever taken a stand on something and while doing so is the right thing to do, it maybe the hardest thing as well? Sometimes we wish life were easier and we dint always have to do the right things….you know, take the easier way out …but then that’s not how we roll is it ?
Making a choice to disconnect from somebody who is so dear to you can be really hard to do…however sometimes it is the best thing to do…
We meet many people as we go along and some mean a lot more than others ever will…however, when things change and the equation needs to be balanced , I am always of the opinion that it’s best to withdraw and disconnect and well give the situation ‘time out’ time before things can get cordial / happy again.
I scoot at the slightest hint of drama and that’s good and bad in many ways. Over the years we master the art of connecting and disconnecting, of letting people who mean so much never know it and even when it hurts us we never show it….
Friends and people may not understand why we do something we do and sometimes we are so tired of trying to sort things out and explain ourselves that we don’t even really try to explain beyond a point….Disconnecting from people is a really hard thing and it hurts to know you maybe hurting people (and are being misunderstood) who matter and mean so much, yet sometimes we have to put ourselves first….
The one thing I have learnt is that time is the best healer – people grow up and experience teaches them to warm up again or then people move apart and realize it was a smart idea to cut losses and move ahead….sometimes people just need to be away from friends/ family that they begin to take for granted in order to test if they meant anything at all….
It’s these tough choices we make and these stands that we take to rather give space than be fake that set us apart from those who will play games and tough as it may seem at times –
A baby’s gotta do what a baby’s gotta do!
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